How to Overcome Emotional Pain
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It is believed that human being has such a mind that nothing is impossible for him. But as far as I feel human being has been unsuccessful in doing one work till today, and that is to keep his fellow human beings happy.
It is believed that human being has such a mind that nothing is impossible for him. But as far as I feel human being has been unsuccessful in doing one work till today, and that is to keep his fellow human beings happy.
We are social animals and thus live in the society where we are surrounded with the people on whom we depend for learning, developing, earning and so on. We have to try to keep them happy for our own benefits. But keeping people happy is an impossible task. You try to keep two happy and the four get angry with you. You plan to give two positives to please them and get their appreciation but they keep themselves busy in finding four negatives so that they can criticise and blame you.
The more you try the more you get frustrated. You find yourself tired and restless. Frustration, tiredness and restlessness cause physical as well as mental illness. Sometimes you get breakdown but even in this condition nobody has mercy on you. Still people are busy in holding you responsible for your trouble.
This attitude of people is just like an emotional setback for you and you try your best to come out of the emotional trauma it causes to you, but generally it is difficult for you to digest such a rude behaviour.
But if you try can tackle it easily. You just have to bring some changes in your thinking pattern. Here you need to understand that satisfying everybody is an impossible thing. Even thinking to pacify even the single person completely is an irrational approach, Always remember everybody has his own thinking pattern and views. You can just influence him to some extent or great extent but not completely. So next time when you are unable to satisfy anybody just laugh it away and say to yourself keeping people happy is an impossible task and we should let it be.
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