Lessons after the Years of an Ugly Duckling
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I was 35. I had a bad breakup with my boyfriend of five years. I had to do something about my situation: I wanted to get married before I turned 40.
I was 35. I had a bad breakup with my boyfriend of five years. I had to do something about my situation: I wanted to get married before I turned 40.
After reading more than 50 relationships and dating books, I learned that if I wanted to find a Good Man, I had to make being attractive and feminine a high priority for myself. I also came to realize that I had to be more passive and to learn to attract a man to me. I had to learn to attract, not to attack, men. I actually had to think about the kind of man I wanted, rather than finding myself ridiculously, quickly falling in love with any man who paid me any attention. I had been a tomboy, too aggressive in chasing after men.
I also had to change myself if I ever hoped to attract a man. Finally, I realized that instead of using all my energy to pursue a man, I needed to become attractive to a man and to let him pursue me. When I started to do something about my weight, my make-up and clothes, my acne, and my unfeminine ways, I noticed that men were paying me more attention. I needed to think more confidently about whom might be a good man for me.
As you develop yourself in your pursuit of love and marriage, I want you to avoid being called “an ugly duckling,” as one man yelled at me as he retreated from my frontal assault. Or, “not really a woman,” as another described me to my face. I want you to attract Good Men to you, not to have to fend off nasty men’s nasty comments.
Do you have any success story to attract men and keep your man? Would you like to share your story with me?
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